I wish I thought this was a uniquely asinine moment.
Mom: that was the club where the gay guy-
Mom: actually someone told me he got murdered
Mom: it wasn’t a hate crime
Mom: well I guess it’s always a hate crime when you get murdered
It’s always surprising to me how many young women think they have to be perfect. I rarely meet a young man who doesn’t think he already is.
Been thinking a lot lately about how putting yourself down is p rude to your friends and family, like, they think you’re great and you’re basically like, “Y’all are either liars or you’ve got terrible taste.”